When a couple does not work, these are words we hear regularly.
But how is it that two people who decided to live together because they loved each other come to no longer support or to hate?
Often, the passion fades early. Recent research has shown that this passion in the couple disappeared after three years.
However, some couples manage to endure, or rather some continue to love each other for over 40 years. Do they have a secret? Are they aliens?
Apparently, it is clear that it is love that motivates them. Of course, love the beginning, closer to love than anything else has changed.
On the other hand, others continue to love each other but end up being still left. They no longer support the lives of two, the routine of everyday life. They are tired of being every day.
It’s a shame to get there while there still love them just as he sometimes little to revive the couple.
If you overwhelm all faults your partner, ask yourself if you also can not be questioned. He must learn to question, make concessions and accept the other as long as you accept your partner’s faults are not dramatic (style violence).
You should know dialogue, communicate with your spouse. If you have played in the day, we must solve the Save The Marriage problem before going to bed, otherwise it will be amplified the next day. Never let resentment build up. Communicating is also shared with the other dreams, hopes, desires … Being a couple, it’s not just looking at each other but looking together in the same direction.
Continue to say “I love you” to write him little notes of love.
Set aside special time to find yourself alone both. Think not always work, children, family. If your marriage is happy, it will also delight your children.
Offer him small gifts, flowers (which is a man or a woman receiving flowers is always nice).
Take care of your partner. Treat it with sensitivity and respect, have consideration for him.
Down with the daily routine! Surprise your partner with small touches: restaurant, weekend getaway, movies, romantic walk, etc.. Use your imagination and surprise him. A change of hairstyle, look, a new dress, a new suit may be sufficient to amaze.
Cultivate couple takes a little effort but if you really love your partner, these little things will be obvious and will not cost you. It should be understood that these expectations are reciprocal and especially your spouse is receptive.
If all this does not work is that your marriage is truly doomed. In this case, it is better not to continue because it is better to separate rather than continue to live together and be miserable. Anyway, do not throw these tips, they will be useful when you met the person that really suits you.
